For those of you planning to see the movie Fifty Shades of Grey, I encourage you to first read the following article that chronicles the abusive/stalking/rapist behavior of Christian toward Anastasia, chapter by chapter.
Yes, I’ve read the book. Yes, I understand what BDSM is, and this book is definitely not a correct depiction of that lifestyle (It’s been proven beyond a doubt the books don’t depict the true BDSM lifestyle because many of the safeguards aren’t respected: safe word, limits that are set and respected, absolutely no plying with alcohol, etc…)
I believe Christian needs to be called out for what he really is—instead of shrouding his behavior as simply showing a relationship under the BDSM lifestyle—Christian is abusive, a stalker, and he’s a rapist.
The article below is very informative, and eye opening to the naive about the true nature of the books, and likely the movie.